This
is a classic case of (Tiwa Savage) girl going for the bad boy which works as a
staple model for relationships that I have seen result in an abusive negative
outcome.
Tee
billz who is said to have a prior history of having had baby mamas around
the world is notorious for being a player. Tiwa payed for his living
costs, to cover up his debts ie it's like he wasn't even earning a living whilst
being married as he was sacked from his role as manager of Tiwa - for allegedly
stealing funds.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O22u_FUkmu8
According
to Tiwa he was openly not coming home in the early hours of the morning which
would have created and just shows the trust issues at
play -- with him playing away which is a big faux par to the success
of any relationship. The Nigerian cultural pressure to marry would have played
a strong role here. Tiwa wanted to perhaps desperate to get married a lot and
as result she made a wrong choice of husband.
I predict more situations like this are
becoming and will be more prevalent within the black community ( the betrayals
of trust/female breadwinner). Especially as women tend to be the main bread winners
due to their economic success within the black community more so in the
contracting recessionary climate we live in. More generally girls
seem to find the bad boys attractive so a relationship like this is the logical
outcome, mixed with the external pressures of family, people like Tiwa must
have a lot of pressure and external influences to see explosive outcomes like
this.
